Just … make love

Stress, city life madness, a full time stressful job and financial problems. All these things may turn out to be real problems in a couple. We live in modern time, with modern technologies that are meant to improve our life, but most of the times the new technology is just another source of stress. And stress can be a big problem when we’re talking about a person’s mental and physic health, not mentioning about a couple’s love life.

Many couples have a real problem in finding time to make love. Sex is very important in maintaining a healthy and strong relation. But what can you do when you have problems in your couple intimate life? What can you do to enjoy that passion you had in the beginning of your relation?

At the beginning it’s like love is in the air, you’re enjoying your partner, explore new sensations. The feeling that you’re the happiest person in the world is soon to be forgotten as soon as you realize that love comes through stomach (although I hate to admit it, it’s true!).

If you truly love your partner and you’re not willing to give up to him try some of these tricks :

- No matter how tired you are after a hard day work, you must give your partner some attention, to let him know you love him. A kiss, a hug and “I missed you today” will do the trick.

- Try to put out a different outfit (a kinky lingerie maybe?!?), put out a new perfume. Let him enjoy you, let him explore your body.

- Call him and tell him that you want to make love with him. That will make him feel wanted.

- When you’re in bed, try different positions (missionary is old :P )

- Most of the woman are ashamed to take the action. Why wait for him to ask for sex? Try to whisper softly to your partner’s ear that you are eager to make love to him. Or better yet, take him to the bedroom …. And while you’re in there, don’t be shy! Let your imagination be wild.

- A particular advise : communicate. Ask him what excites him most, and stuff like that. After all, you cannot know everything, can you?

- Establish with him a day when you give up any other activity just so you can stay in bed. Planning this it’s almost like a foreplay …

- Did I forgot to mention that kissing it’s just another way of showing that you love him/her?

Now, how much are you willing to let other things interfere with your love life?

I would say … forget about work, just make love!

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