Any man is very easily seduced by a powerful woman. If you’re looking for idealism in a relationship the odds of finding a recipe are very small.
Your man must think you’re the gorgeously and ideal like woman he will ever find, that there’s not other like you.
First of all, prove that you’re independent. Although they don’t quite admit it, they are fascinated by a lady that know how to take care of herself. But be careful, to much of that independence can do more damage that good. So, find a balance between being a pussycat and a iron lady.
Then show him that you’re smart. We all know that a hot body, beautiful eyes, a perfect smile and long slim legs always make a man’s mind go wild (and not only his mind:P), but after a while when all the charm is gone, it’s better for you to show him that you’re not just a puppet, a beautiful doll he uses for a good impression. A gorgeous body is nothing without a brilliant brain.
After you showed him that it’s not the body but the brain that makes the difference, I suggest you to amaze him in other way. In … bed, perhaps?!? Don’t be shy and discover your fantasies. Don’t let him control the way things are in bed, go ahead and show him what you can do. A man often gets bored by a partner that is dull in bed. He is always expecting for something new. Just let go of you bed personality.
I really don’t know why most of the ladies that have a stable relation stop caring about their physical aspect. It’s like they all think like :”I got him, and now he’s mine”. This is wrong. You should always try to make yourself pretty for him and for you too. You should love your body and try to improve it. If not, you’ll cry when another girl, more careful about her appearance will steal your man. And, never forget about sexy lingerie. It ‘s absolutely fabulous.
Another important aspect of your relation is communication. Without it no relation can survive. When I say communication is the key to a successful long therm relation I mean it. You just can’t live next to a person that doesn’t share with you all his/her thoughts, all his/hers aspirations and so on … Next to communicate thing is respect. I just wonder how can some people stay together when they don’t have not even a bit of respect for each other? Listen to each others feelings, beliefs and try to come to a solution.
And, I couldn’t finish this article without mentioning about the intimate space that all of us need. Maybe he just wants to hang out with the boys tonight, or read a book. Don’t bother him. Respect his wish and remember that from time to time all of us need some privacy, some time just for ourselves. There’s nothing worse than a lady yapping all day long about her needs. So, give your partner the freedom that he desires. He/She will love you more.